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从现在开始应该把握每一个你能把握的人, 放弃你留不住的人
爱一个人原来是一件不太需要自尊的事情
自己一定在乎自己的自尊, 但你的自尊在别人眼里根本不算什么
原来现实如此地无奈
有很多东西是不属于你的, 强求是无济于事的
快乐常常来自回忆, 而痛苦却来自回忆与现实的差距
很多事情，只要自己心里有数就好了，沒必要说出來
过去的事情可以不忘记，但一定要放下

Things you would understand slowly and gradually over the time

• If you care too much about the other person, you end up hurting yourself
• The more you want to hold on to something, the more quickly you would end up losing it
• You may not necessarily get things in return by treating someone wholeheartedly, yet those who are overlooked by you may be the ones who care for you the most
• So many things cannot be deliberately sought after, a lot of them can be owned for only once in your life time
• Don't argue with others, for it would be to no avail, regardless who is right or wrong
• Everything we do may not be always meaningful, but everything we do will always leave us some memories
• Many people you knew long time ago may be hard to be recognized today, but please retain the memories
• Friendship is often more reliable than love
• From now on, take hold of those you can grasp, give up on those you can't have
• You must care very much about your own self-esteem, but your own self-esteem is nothing in other people's eyes
• You feel so helpless when facing the reality
• There are many things do not belong to you, it is useless to work your heart out trying to get them
• Happiness often comes from memories, yet pain comes from the gap between memories and reality
• It's good enough to have the ideas in mind on many things, no need to speak out
• You can choose not to forget the things of past, but it is wise to let them go